I thought maybe that was your drift before but I didn't want to say anything!  I can really see how it would be hard to except!

yeah, he has been "that way" since i have known him, still had the HUGEST crush on him until i turned 10,
he lost his longtime partner 2 years ago on Christmas... i know he was going to move on, and i am cool with that, i guess i just object to this one, money hungry, whiny, hates horses etc etc...did i mention not friendly at all, likes to talk about people in spanish when he doesnt realize that thanks to years in private school i am fairly proficient in spanish?
  :rotf:

  Man that sucks!  So your "dad" does not see that part of him?  I'm sure you have tries to talk to him about it.   Men they just won't listen!  You think he is just lonley, and is settling for this guy?

you have it pegged right there:"You think he is just lonley, and is settling for this guy?"

unfortunately he is , and that breaks my heart....he sees what happens, and be is afraid of being alone and settles..
 he is absolutely gorgeous, great personlaity, wicked awful sense of humor {where i got mine from!} and can mix some killer drinks!!!!!!! doesnt hurt that he and i are hilarious when we are tishfaced.... LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! :rotf:

would love to hook him up with someone he used to date.... had so much fun with that one!!! but has moved on and is doing well, they stayed friends , but i do hold out some hope....

Oh man that sucks Jett.  He sounds like a really great guy.  Can you do things to him new "partner", you know like TP his house and leave a note that says leave my "dad" alone!  Or saran wrap his car, or prank call him.  Just do stuff that makes him think you are crazy, then maybe he will run away!

Sounds like the relationship might not last that long.  Sooner or later your "dad" will wake up and kick the looser to the road.

i have tried a few things but since he {the other} moved to Atlanta.. now he is "untouchable".. but dad commutes up there twice a month... but Dad called me today with "great" news, his S.O. is moving back from Atlanta..so the games will begin again.LOL!!!